Yesterday evening, my husband gave me an ultimatum to choose him or my male best friend. I chose my hubby of course. But after, my husband admitted to me that he was hoping I would choose my best friend, so he would have an excuse to leave and he wouldn’t have to tell me that he’s been cheating on me for about a year with my househelp.
I was speechless, dumbfounded and heartbroken. To make matters worse, he said the househelp is now 2 months pregnant for him.
Don’t even know what to do now. We have 4 kids together o!!!
Shiiit Happens!!! 
He’s ready to make the house help and her child his second family; are you ready for that? In as much as the 4kids need to be considered. You have to be able to stable (mentally, emotionally, etc) to be there for your children too. Whatever decision you make be sure to put all that into consideration. And what’s really up with you having a male best friend (your husband definitely sees him as a threat for him to ask to pick). Anyways, i Wish you all the best
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